What should I do?!

Question

I was looking through my bf’s photos on his phone last night (not spying, we allow each other to look) to find a picture of us I wanted to send to my parents. ANYWAY, upon looking, I discovered a video. This video was my boyfriend having sex with a girl while he was AT WORK. I don’t know if it’s his ex or some random but it still grossed me out. It’s from a long time ago, not cheating, but icky still. Should I confront him about it? I just can’t stop thinking about it now and how weird it is he still had this video. Any help appreciated!

Answer

Since you had permission to look through his phone, you’re entitled to ask him about it if you wish. I think it’s a bit odd, but that’s just my opinion. If it’s going to be on your mind then you should ask him about it because it could end up affecting your relationship if there’s awkwardness between you.

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I'd talk to him about it. Admit you snooped and found it. Explain to him that he should have already deleted it, out of respect for you, and her. Typically, once you end a relationship that means that girl (or guy) is no longer consenting for you to have possession of their nudes or sexual videos they have let you have during the relationship. 
But hopefully he just forgot to delete it and forgot it was there. He still needs to delete it.

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Ask him to delete it

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Ask him otherwise you'll never be able to forget it and you will always have questions in the back of your mind

What should I do?!

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