People overreacting to Pregnancy and how tough baby's really are?

Ok so,
I'm 9 weeks and 1 day pregnant and I am beyond over people telling me "you should only eat this" or "you shouldn't do that" it's driving me crazy! I can't even dye my hair! 
In my opinion I think eating soft cheeses and deli meats are perfectly safe if they arnt near their expiry date. 
I also have sever morning sickness so the only foods I can eat are usually fruit or salty junk food. 
Whilst I balance out my diet (eat more fruit than junk) and have vitamins people get SO judgmental about me saying, eating or doing what I want to do just because it's not by the book or isn't recommended. 
My baby my choices :) 
Do any other mums out there feel the same? I feel like I'm alone! :) 
Also PLEASE keep it friendly! :)