How to know when you’re ready to try again?

Hi there. I miscarried at 6 weeks and then needed get treatment with methotrexate 4 weeks after for remaining placenta that didn’t expel.

When this first started, I was ready to try again as soon as I could, but now I’ve been bleeding for 5 weeks and probably will for another week.

My husband read that you have a higher chance of having a healthy pregnancy if you get pregnant right away after miscarriage. But now that it’s taken so long for my body to heal, I’m just not sure. It’s not even an emotional thing, it’s a physical thing. I want my body to rest, but I don’t want to go back on birth control. Plus, I do want a baby.

How did you know when you were ready?