What do y'all think? 🚨

So I'm recently divorced at of June. Well my ex husband lives in WA and I live in Kentucky. I'm going up to visit a friend of mine and her baby in Feb. Well me and my ex matched on Tinder. We chatted for a bit and he wants to take me out to dinner or a movie. Then hook up but no emotional attachment and not text often. My girl friend said he called it a DATE. She also said he sounds conflicted on what to do. Should I give him the benefit of the doubt or just completely ignore him?