I am a young mother . I chose to be a young mother , I planned my pregnancies . Im expecting my second baby before most even think of their first . Im currently 20 Ive been married 2 1/2 yrs . My husband and I live in the second home we bought without help . Being a young mom is hard . I would compare it to BEING A MOM AT ANY AGE . Lately Ive seen people say so many rude things even calling people immature for having kids young . Added stress sometimes ? sure it is . Tiring ? yep . Expensive ? Definetly !... Oh yeah and when your 30 ? huh same thing .. My family is full of young moms who planned it that way and some didnt and they are all happy and loving and excepting . I was so shocked the first time I was mistreated for being a young mom ... so before you decide to tell someone " you are too young to be considering kids " ask yourself do you truely know every aspect of their lives ? for instance Im 20 but I look maaaaybe 18 . People would never assume Im married stable AND that I had to help raise my neice and nephew for a short time after I was married so yeah , I did have atleast " an idea " of what kids are. like . Open your eyes . Moms come at every age shape color and size .