My son is almost 4 months old and we still have not been able to have sex. I had a first degree perineum tear and also tore into my labia. Stitches on both ends, both healed very well so I’m told. I got a steroid shot in a clump of scar tissue a couple weeks ago that was supposed to help but still no good! It feels like my vaginal canal has shortened...does that even make sense?? Really hoping someone has had a similar experience and can give me some answers!