Against your wishes - what would you do?

Question

What would you do if someone in your partners family posted 50 photos & videos  of your child over a few days - knowing that you had requested no photos on Facebook - it’s worth noting this is the 3rd time photos have been posted but now it’s a lot

Accepted Answer

Tell them if they can’t respect your wishes then they won’t see them unsupervised. They’ve gone against your wishes not just once but 3 times, that’s a hell of a lot of videos and photos

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Ask them to remove the photos and if they won’t, report it to FB so they can be removed. There is (or was) an option when reporting a photo to say it was posted without your knowledge or permission. Also I would block them from seeing any of your social media outlets so they cannot “steal” pictures and limit their involvement.

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I personally would not send those people any more photos, they will not be allowed to take photos of my child, and they probably wont be seeing my child again unless were all at family functions. 
If you cant respect my wishes on something minor (to me) as photos. I cannot trust that you will respect other wishes and requests regarding my child.

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Block them on Facebook.  Call them and tell them that they completely went against your wishes and potentially report them to Facebook if they aren’t taken down within a few minutes of the phone call.
Then you can discuss later on if you will be sharing anything with them again.
I don’t play this game.

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i’d report the photos and give a brief description as to why, usually social media sites are very compliant when it’s pictures of somebody else & their family. i’d also have another talk with them that it’s YOUR family and they need to respect you when you say NO PICTURES/VIDEOS!! you shouldn’t even have to defend yourself and say why, if you said no then no means no, end of story.

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I’d put them on restricted status going forward.

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tell them off

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Cut them out. If they cant respect your wishes they dont deserve to be a part of your kids life.

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Ask them  to remove them,  and  do noy allow them to take pictures  or video in the future

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speak to my partner

Against your wishes - what would you do?

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