What would you choose? Real life dilemma (not mine).

You have 1 amazing child from your ex. (It was no good love). You have always wanted a big family and having more children of your own.

You find the perfect guy, he has 3 children. You move in, big happy family. It’s all you have ever wanted, picture perfect. His children love you and your child and vice versa. But he is older, has seen it all, is at that point he wants to enjoy his rest, even though picked a younger woman knowing she has not experienced that yet.

That feeling of wanting another child makes you sad. You can’t push it away or ignore it. You told him in the beginning you wanted another child of your own, he said he didn’t and you both agreed on letting it rest for an year.

Because you moved in quickly after that and the family has bonded fast, it keeps coming up and you can’t get rid of that emotional, sad, feeling.

On one hand you know that you have everything that you ever wanted. On the other hand you feel incomplete and know that, deep inside, you will never get rid of this deep rooted motherly feeling. It’s making you want to cry all day when you think of a future without even trying for another child (it’s also possible it doesn’t go as planned off course, but to at least try).

And him saying that if she did got pregnant he would want to have that child, or sometimes saying things like he maybe wants a child and the next day he doesn’t anymore, doesn’t help either.

What would you choose if you have to make a decision today? And why?