I think there is a difference between "trying" and "not preventing." Not preventing is like saying "I'm just going to have sex whenever and we'll see what happens." Trying is taking addition steps to better your chances. So I've always wondered what people really mean when they say they've been "trying" for x amount of time. And when people say something like "oh be patient, it took my friend x months to get pregnant." What type/steps are you guys doing?