Feeling guilty

I wasn’t sure where to post this so hopefully this is ok.

I’m currently 21 weeks pregnant with my 2nd baby. My friend of 15 odd years has just lost her precious baby at about 27 weeks pregnant and I’m absolutely heartbroken for her 😢 We don’t see each other or communicate very often as we live a long way from each other but I’m going to send her a card letting her know I’m thinking of her and that I’m always here should she ever want to talk. The thing is I’m struggling to not feel guilty for being pregnant myself ☹️ I feel like I can’t celebrate when she is hurting (obviously not rubbing it in her face but we have family all over who like to be updated via social media) I don’t want to add to her pain 😢 I’m also feeling extremely anxious about my pregnancy now and struggling to feel good about it. Basically it’s thrown me and I just feel so bad for feeling like I do when I’m not the one going through hell 😥