My husband is all about work

My husband is all about work- if it’s not work it doesn’t pertain to him. He’s a hand working man. Provides for us. He pays all these benefits for health insurance through his employer. I had to force him to go see a doctor. I had to find a doctor, make the appointment, and go with him because if not he would have chosen to go to work instead that morning. He has horrible fungus on my toenails for YEARS! Now after three months of treatment- the doctor wanted to see him again to check the progress. They call him to confirm the schedule yesterday. Today I ask him about his appointment and he is clueless on the time. My point is: if you don’t know the time you’re suppose to arrive how are you suppose to know what time to leave work. But all of that is irrelevant to him. It’s hours before the appointment and he’s just now looking at his work schedule to see if he can make it. I’m like dude’ they call you and you confirm the appointment’ they charge fees if you don’t cancel in time. Turns out he can make it to the appointment in the morning. Am I wrong for feeling frustrated about him being less about work and more on his health? He hasn’t seen a dentist but yet he pays money to insurance for the best. He has court class he has to take online and he hasn’t done that. Like I don’t know what else to do to make him understand how severe these things are to our health. We need to see doctors, dentist, take care of tickets. Life is much more than WORK!

I just told him we will have a serious talk when he gets home.