I started masterbating a long time before I started my period(my first time was when u was 11) and all I did was rub my clit but now I'm older and I don't know what to do. I'm to scared to finger myself or use a brush or something... Also I'm really tight down there because 1) I'm a virgin 2) I'm a lesbian sooo... 3) I've never used a tampon. But I really like the feels I get. Help?