Are we wrong for not wanting to tell family till 19 weeks?

found out that we are pregnant with our rainbow pumpkin baby and couldn’t be more thrilled!

However! We would feel more comfortable not telling family until I’m about 19 weeks.my goal is to have as stress free as a pregnancy as possible and knowing his family I don’t have the energy to deal with some of the negative or stressful reactions and dictation. I don’t mean to sound rude it’s just in my first pregnancy we told everyone right away and I was overwhelmed with the amount of stress certain people (probably unknowingly) put me through. We ended up having miscarriage on that pregnancy and it was painful and I just have horrible memories because of all the gossip and stress.

That’s not the only reason we want to wait it’s just obviously because we don’t know where this pregnancy will take us and we want to enjoy this baby as much as we can. If I’m going to stress let it be at a stage where the baby and I are not so venerable.

Jut wanted to know if we are being extra? I know I’ll probably be showing before that but I rather wait as long as I can Can I can’t handle the stress. It’s unfortunate that’s one of the reasons but 🤷🏾‍♀️

Thanks for your feedback in advance 🧡🧡🧡