need advice

i miss being held. Imiss feeling like im his world. i took some sexy ass photos the other day and i sent it to him at work and he didnt acknowledge it at all. only few days after when i mentioned it and seemed upset he got turned on. All we do is watch movies. When he comes home from work he has a bath waiting for him , his coffee is made. im trying to take care of my man in all ways i could think of.... but i am not taken care of😢 i would like to get spoiled or just smothered with affection once in a while. All he does is points out what i do wrong. I feel like im being neglected in my needs as a woman. When i try talking to him he doesnt acknowledge what i feel or how i feel. He calls it me being petty. But he is quick to voice his opinion when he feels hurt or when something upset him. Like yesterday i was outside when he came home, hanging laundrey. I heard the car and decided i will just finish up real quick and go inside and greet him. He made such a huge ass scene because i didnt greet him at the door. Like im some damn poodle, wagging my tail waiting for my owner to come home. he has all these expectations of me like greet me at the door when i get home, let me make the decisions, respect me etc etc but i am not allowed to have any expectations???Is this how normal relationships function?? im a very caring and loving person and i thrive when i feel wanted and loved... am i wrong for being offended and hurt that he only cares for what he wants? How can i approach this situation with him being the mos stubborn person i have ever met. He is just never in the wrong and nothing is ever his fault. Like i have said, all he wants to do is watch movies and i dont mind im compromising as best as i can but atleast hold me, kiss me or something... just spoil me once in a while. Help a girl out. Im frustrated.