Baby not wanting to sleep!

My 7 week old is not wanting to go to sleep at night !!! He stays up until 1 am and by that time it’s time for a feeding so I’m not getting to sleep until around 2am then waking up for a 5am feeding . I’m about to lose my mind because I don’t know what else to do ! My husband and I can’t be intimate , watch tv or do anything because the baby won’t go to sleep . It’s so depressing !

By the way, my LO HATES being swaddled ! We’ve tried different ways and he DOES NOT like it. He also doesn’t self soothe..he will make tons and tons of LOUD noise (sure way to keep us awake) in his pack n play until he is picked up. We tried a nighttime routine but since he eats every 2 hours it’s a little hard . He spits his pacifier out and when we put it back in he screams and spits it out again. He will do this for about 30 mins to an hour . He starts around 9 pm with the fussiness and not wanting to sleep and it goes on into the early morning hours . He also hates his pack n play (we are keeping

Him in our room until he’s 6 months) We have no time to ourselves at all and i don’t know how much more I can take with no sleep.