Is this normal???

Elena
Okay so lets start by saying i have very irregular periods....sometimes they come when they are suppose too but usually they are a month late. Sometimes two or three months! Anyway a few months ago I had sex with my bf...usually after we both hit a shower then knock out...this time I noticed I had a little blood on myself and started freaking out! I showered and put on a pad then woke up and saw it was my period, my bf was like "cool I opened the portal" lol I didn't think much of it till about a month ago the same thing happened ...I wiped and saw faint pink/red blood! But this time when I woke up the next morning I didn't have my period! Last night the same thing happened right after sex I peed and when I wiped saw blood but this time it was more than usual..today I woke up and nothing . no period. I checked my app my period isn't due till two more weeks from today (and usually my periods are late not early). I'm so worried . I know this can not be normal...😩