Ok so, me and my husband are expecting and we found out it’s going to be a girl. My sister asked if we had picked a name and my boyfriend had thrown out this name when we found out it was a girl and we both just loved it. Well when I told my sister the name she got kind of mad and said she had ALWAYS loved that name for a little girl and claimed I stole it from her when I honestly had never remembered hearing the name until my boyfriend asked if I liked it and I thought it was unique and beautiful but now my sister is upset. I told her it’s silly to save the name for her and she may never have a girl or may even meet a guy she has kids with that doesn’t like the name and then neither of us will get to use it. So should I respect “dibs” and not use the name because she apparently has loved the name for years or that’s dumb and I can use the name if I want to?? For what it’s worth as well, I also told her that it took us a long time to really agree on a name we both loved for a girl.