I talked to my doctor about having sex with my husband when I had my first appt at 8 weeks 3 days. She said it was a totally normal fear and that although there could be minor irritation it was safe. After making excuses after that (I'm just about to be 10 weeks and we haven't had sex since I got pregnant) we finally did. Y'all I didn't realize how horny you can get during pregnancy. I have gotten to where I have regular sexy dreams if you know what I mean. The sex was totally fine. No irritation as of yet and no cramping or anything of that nature. I guess I am only posting to help put anyone's mind at ease from one scared mama to another.