would this be spiteful?

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Would it be spiteful of me not to have my son go to his sister's birthday party because me and his dad are not seeing eye to eye and he is constantly being disrespectful to me? I just want him to respect me he can't just walk all over me and still expect me to be nice. That's BS. I'm not trying to be a bitter and spiteful babymama but just want respect.

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Yep. Don’t make your son miss out— it’s not his fault that his dad and you are having trouble getting along.

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If you aren't mad at your son, why would you punish him? That's petty bullshit.

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Yes. Never use your children as leverage.

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"I'm not trying to be the bitter babymama but I'm gonna act like a bitter babymama anyways"....

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Children are not weapons. The moment you treat them as such you declare a war that you will not win. 
Let your son go and find an adult way to get through to the father while leaving kids out of it.

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Yes, it would be spiteful. If you have issues with his dad then deal with it with his dad. Don't use your son to get back at anyone. Let your son enjoy his sister's birthday party. Why should your son suffer?

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It’s like a 50/50 honestly

would this be spiteful?

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