Terrible sex....

Sex with my husband and I is just terrible lately. It's like we don't turn each other on. We love each other fiercely, but just can't really get in the mood. I think it's because he is so cut and dry with it. He just makes-out with me and plays with my tits. He is extremely submissive and I'm ok with that, but I'd like him to actually step up for once and be the dominant one and get me all into it and not do the regular. Our regular is literally

• Kiss

• Play with/suck on tit's

• Start hand job

• Possible blow job

• Apply lube and I climb on top and am not allowed to stop till finish pretty much because if I do, he goes soft.

Usually there is no sound and frankly, it's kind of boring. He doesn't really want to open up and try thing's though. I've asked him. This just sucks! How are we supposed to get pregnant if we can't even have sex?