Hey Everyone . My name is Chan (My code name) I’m 21 years old and I live with my mother , grandmother, and two sisters . ( I am the cream in the cookie )

So I’m in a huge pickle and some what scared but pissed at the same time . Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years now . He is a pretty good boyfriend . We’ve been through a lot and we are growing together . At first my family didn’t like him but they are getting to know and like him . Well anywho ... the issue !

My mom went on a 7 day cruise with my step dad . With my mom being the head of household she always takes my little sister to school every morning . With her being on a cruise no one was able to take her beside me. My older sister has to be at work at 6 oclock in the morning. While I have to be in at 9 . Moral of the story . Who can take her to school ? Ding Ding ! Me

Lol so I really don’t stay home because I don’t have any privacy to myself . Even though my house is a 4 bedroom with 2 baths it’s pretty small . Everyone has their own room except for me . I share it with my 16 year old little sister and it SUCKS . My mom gave me permission to stay in her room while she is away because she knows how much I hate being cramped in the room with my instagram, twitter, late night talking sister. So i usually stay at my boyfriend house and spend the night there .

So today is Wednesday and I’ve been taking her to school no problem. Last night my boyfriend came over and we stayed up pretty late so he ended up staying with me in my moms room. At first i was unsure if he should stay but it was 4 am in the morning . So we decided to stay . We had to be up in 2 hours for my sister so we pretty much just stayed up and waited. Dozed off a little and that’s it .

My grandmother saw him come over last night . And he said good morning when he left . Hinting . That yeah he stayed over last night . She said good morning hugged and kissed him blah blah blah .

Later this afternoon i get a call from my 28 year old sister cursing me out saying why did i have him in our moms room . She explained that it was disrespectful and that i needed to Lysol the whole room and buy new sheets . ( We did not have sex; it’s weird to do that . I felt like my mom was watching us lol )Yep grandma called her and over exaggerated that me and him were having an orgy in my mother’s bed .

I explained to her that we stayed up the whole night simply because it was awkward and i knew that it wasn’t ok . Also we couldn’t stay in the living room because my grandma room is right by the living room and can hear and see everything . As the night grew we decided to stay in my mothers room

I was pretty upset that my grandmother couldn’t speak to me or ask me before going to my sister and opening up a can of worms as if i was having sex with him in my moms bed ... weird .

From you guys point of view . Would you be mad at your daughter for having her boyfriend in your room and do you find it disrespectful ? Also how would you explain this to your mom before grandma gets to her ?

Sorry for the grammar and punctuation.