My mom won't let me hang out with my boyfriend?

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So I recently started seeing this guy and it's both of our first real relationships. We've hung out a few times together and we talk all the time but I really want to just cuddle with him all the time. My mom however doesn't let us hang out alone and doesn't like us hanging out at other people's houses because she thinks we are doing it to "get away with more stuff" and she always accuses me of sexting with him, or even insinuating that we are gonna jump each other whenever (the farthest we've gone is deadass cuddling and I sent him a photo of me in a bikini to ask if I should pack it for vacation). My parents are kind of strict and like to cross boundaries (I told my mom about this dude before we started actually seeing each other and she found his Facebook profile and went through it to ask me about him) so I don't want to introduce him to them yet but I don't know how else to spend more time with him? Does anyone have any advice of what we can do to see each other more, or even advice of how  to talk my parents about this? (bonus, we are both turning 18 within the next week to two)
 
Edit: Just an FYI for the people telling me to wait til I'm 18, im living with my parents til I'm 19 due to a college program I'm in and my mom has told me I'm not allowed to spend the night at his house and he isn't allowed to spend the night at ours as long as I live with them. So yeah being 18 won't really help

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Your mom needs to cut the damn umbilical cord already. That’s beyond helicopter parenting. Ewh

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Unfortunately for you, even though you don’t agree with your mothers parenting style, you are still under her supervision until you turn 18, so she’s going to do what she’s going to do. She’s concerned about you. What you can try is sitting down with her and trying to have a mature conversation with her about trust. Let her know that your intentions are not to do the things that she thinks you’re going to do. Your intentions are just to try to make a connection with this person and develop a good relationship. Let her know that you really need her to give you a little bit more trust. Show her that you can be trusted too by making sure you listen to her rules, be home by the time she says, etc. the more you show you can be trusted to make the right decisions, the more your mom will trust you.

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Maybe just wait until you’re 18 and then they can’t really do shit 🤷🏼‍♀️

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when your 18 you can do whatever you want. if you want to go see him she cant stop you. if you live with her just respect the rules of her home but she cant tell you who you can and cant hang out with.

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I’m 25, so I’m not that far removed from your situation. I started dating my now husband when I was 17 and he was 18. My parents were pretty strict and most of the time we spent together was at one of our parents houses. He went off to college a year before me and came home to see me on the weekends because I wasn’t allowed to go visit him. At the time it feels horrible because all you want is to be together. I know it feels like your parents are overbearing and in the way but they only want to protect you. My youngest sister is currently 19 and I see her get frustrated with my mom when she is not allowed to do things but I now completely understand my moms side of things. I have a 2 year old daughter of my own and the thought of her growing up and dating scares the shit out of me. What I’m trying to say is that I know it sucks but it won’t last forever and your parents only want what’s best for you. I was completely in love with my boyfriend and totally trusted him (obviously, because I married him...after we both graduated college) but it took my parents longer to see that and trust him themselves.

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My mom does the same thing so I’m here for the comments

My mom won't let me hang out with my boyfriend?

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