Unsatisfying Sex Life

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for close to a year. When we first stared having sex we had it all the time. That was over summer when we had more time off, so as time went on a we started living together I didn’t expect to have sex as frequently as when we first started. But lately it feels few and far between. I’ve been trying to surprise him with some lingerie all week but he just hasn’t been up to it. He works hard and so do I so I understand being tired and not feeling up to it, but it’s really starting to bother me. I’m starting to feel unattractive and undesirable. I also can’t orgasm so whenever we do have sex it ends and I’m disappointed. I feel like I’m starting to have an unhealthy relationship with sex because when I don’t get it I’m disappointed and when I do get it I still feel disappointment because I can’t get off. I just don’t know what to do, and how to remedy this situation.