Advice

I recently moved away from my family for the love of my life. I have been told that I may not be able to conceive if I wait too long due to scar tissue on one of my ovaries from cyst removals. My boyfriend is 30 and wants kids as much as I do but wants to be married first. I have a wonderful career and am ready to be a mom. I know he is ready too but is afraid of what people will think because we aren't married yet. Any advice? Am I crazy for wanting to be a mommy before we are married?