My husband was committed Wednesday by his va dr they did not allow me and our children to tell him bye or discuss our finances before he leaves (he has our only debit card) his dr would not go get it from him. I don't know where my husband is or what's going on no body will tell me and his dr will not return any of my phone calls. Has anyone dealt with this or no what I can do to find out where my husband is and what is going on