Naming Our Miscarried Baby?

*UPDATE*

**We decided on a name yesterday and it has helped. I didn’t like referring to our baby as our loss or “what happened” or “the baby”. We decided on SUTTON😊.**

We recently miscarried our baby and have decided to name the baby to help us mourn and cope with the loss. It was too early to find out the gender so we are going to go with a unique gender neutral name. But that has been harder than we expected... has anyone named their miscarried baby? Did it help coping with the loss? Anyone have any gender neutral name ideas, unique and great meaning for name the better! Thanks in advance!!