Lately I feel like my boyfriend doesn't really give a shit. There seems like there is absolutely no effort at all. Last year Valentine's Day his sister did everything and his mum bought my birthday presents and he FORGOT about the anniversary and then once again he didn't do anything for Valentine's Day.... we have decided on alternating years on who gets to do what but seriously ...... no effort at all. I've been talking to him about it for a while now and nothing has worked even my friends have tried talking about it and what he should do in case he got stuck and just nothing .......