I found out I had herpes at 17 not sure from who I had already had three partners one being my husband. Im now 22 Neither of us have really had an outbreak I thought it was a mistake diagnosis but I guess it’s just really dormant. im now 4 weeks pregnant my MIL who is a nurse wants to go to my first appointment with me and also is already talking about being in the room when I give birth. So my question is will my doctor talk about this stuff in front of her? Do they run test on things like that during the first appointment, because I rather tell my doctor later in private and most importantly can I still give birth naturally??