Okay long story, so I broke up with my ex-boyfriend last month and was feeling pretty good about my decision. I let him go, because I knew I wanted more and better from a guy. We’re both in college and I see him a couple times a week (thank you God we don’t have class together). Although, he texted me a couple of days ago, and said something like, “Hey, so I don’t mean to annoy you, but was there anything else that made you breakup with me?” And I was like,

I texted him back saying, “why do you want to talk about this now? We talked about the reasons when we broke up.” Mind you he was completely hungover when I broke up with him and I explained in detail why I broke up with him for 2 hours straight cause he didn’t understand. So like after all this time, what else is there to explain? He texted back acting all childish and said, “whatever, just forget, your right, I won’t bother you again.”

I’m pretty sure he will text me again, cause I knew he was hurting from the break up. I asked him if he needed closure and again he was all “whatever, it doesn’t even matter”. So I left it at that, and now I’ve been seeing him around more, and my friends who are with me most of the time say him and his friend keep looking over at me and he keeps showing up to places he knows I’ll be. And I’ll be like “oh great, the cocky jackass is here.”

I get it that he is still hurting over the breakup, but like, I don’t want to see him. It’s not like it didn’t hurt me somewhat when I broke up with him, so I’m not totally stone cold about it all. I just don’t understand, he didn’t fight for our relationship to begin with, and I’m mad at him for that. Also, out of all the times I’ve seen him he walks around all cocky and laughs and talks loud around me with his friend. Why can’t he see that if he didn’t do shit like that, we both could move on? It harder to do that since we see each other as much as we do. I just feel that he’s being and has always been so selfish.

So my question is, how can I get over him when I still see him so much? I’ve tried to focus on myself, but it’s hard when I’ve got assignments and my own stuff at college to deal with that’s not particularly fun. I just wanted to ask what do you guys do when you’re trying to move on from someone?