Am I being bitchy??

I don’t know if I’m being a bitch or if I have reason to feel this way.

My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex, and I may be pregnant. My period is very late and I’ve had early pregnancy symptoms. I kept telling him I feel pregnant but he said I’m not, but as time goes on, he believes me. I’m going to test again soon. (I tested too early the first time) But that’s not really important. Regardless if I’m pregnant or not, if we did get pregnant, I need to know how he’d approach it.

Anyway, he works at a place where he makes $18/hr. He’s planning on going to school a couple states away, so he’d be quitting and moving and just going to school, and working somewhere part-time making minimum wage, just enough money to pay for his apt there, to make ends meet and that’s it. We were going to do long distance while he’s there (2 years).

In my mind.. I imagined that, if we were to ever get pregnant.. He would be working full time to support the baby and I. (I’d be working as well.) and he would put off school. Because we don’t have a place yet and we don’t live together. And I live in a shed.. (it’s a long story) but I don’t feel like it’s safe for the baby to live here and his house is filled with his crazy mom and sister.

He just told me that I’m moving with him states away if I am pregnant. I told him it’s not a good idea. We’d have one car, he’d be at school, then work. I’d be away from all my family and friends, and in case something happened or I needed someone, I’d have to wait for him to get home. Who’s going to take me to my appointments, work, any errands etc?

Not to mention, when I did have the baby, I’d have no help with a sitter in case I ever wanted to get out of the house for once. I feel like it’s a disaster waiting to happen. Depression runs in my family and I can see being affected by post-partum depression.. I already have anxiety and depression.

He’s at work so we haven’t been able to really discuss it, but I need to know if you all think this is a bad idea.. thanks