Hormonal wreck

Does anyone else feel not as attractive Nymore  my husband of 12 years acted like he wanted me earlier in the day while we were out with our 3 other kids then we get home take showers and he says he doesn't want to get sweaty again just really makes me feel like I am fat and ugly to him not sure what to do the kidsare not the excuse because his mother kept them for the night so we could have some U.S. Time but all he is doing is watching dang TV