decided to snoop a little. sorry it's long

my bf lets me look at his messages when I want to.

well tonight I was curious because he don't normally express his feelings out loud to me or tell me what's wrong till I get him to get it off his chest .

he has a friend that has done his taxes for a few years now and claims she's a professional. well I wanted to do them for our first year being totally together and have our child ( I really don't want to give out my son's ssn either ) but I guess she got hurt by not being able to do them and saying that my bf doesn't care about them anymore ( her , her son and her bf they are all best friends ) that made me feel bad because I'm not stopping him from going to see his friends. he comes home from work and helps with our son and then plays video games. but it also hurt about the taxes because he wound up having to owe state taxes back and she's all like you shouldn't be oweing anything back at all so she got frustrated. I was already done and sent them in when she wanted to check them. which means amending them and taking longer to get money back. We needed things in the house real bad like a fridge cause ours was dead couldn't keep nothing cold at all .. so it hurt cause it made me feel like I did something wrong.. my bf also lives in one state and works in another so tax time is always jumbled around.

sorry I'm just ranting.