So it's true. Men do love a chase and I wish I realized earlier. It's in my nature to do absolutely anything and everything for my boyfriend just to make him happy. I would pretend to be interested in things he liked and always did what he wanted to do. I thought this was normal and it made me happy doing it. But my boyfriend found it uncomfortable and annoying and wanted me to stop. I tried. It was hard. He was getting Annoyed saying I wasn't my own person even though I wanted to be who he wanted me to be. That's my life goal but I know I need to change.

So today while he was playing video games (usually I sit next to him and watch and cheer him on) I decided to lie on the bed and play on my phone the whole time. I noticed him looking over at me heaps and he kept asking me what I was doing. Then he kept saying hey babe look at this and I'm like oh yeah cool whatever. He was so confused! But this is what he wanted right?!

Anyway I decided to leave suddenly and he was all over me giving me cuddles and wanting attention.

It was a good lesson for me. I shouldn't be a slave to my boyfriend because it gets better results.

EDIT I'm not playing games. I just did what he asked and it came across as playing hard to get because usually im so easy to get and if he wants me then I'm there. This is better for both of us. And it was so interesting to see that he did want my attention after all he just wants to fight for it not have me give it so easy