My husband is in the military and we are pregnant with twins (first
pregnancy). The issue is that there is a chance I'll be put on bed rest in September and we are in the middle of either staying at our post (he's trying to go green to gold which will allow him to go to school where we are originally from and still get paid by the army, so he's reenlist to stay here then move back home eventually), pcsing to a different base, or even possibly getting out of the army all together. He has until August to decide and he still isn't sure. My mom is nervous because there's a possibility of his unit now deploying at the beginning of next year so if we stay here and he doesn't get green to gold he will be deploying most likely and I'll be stuck here with twins where I'll have no help, or that he'll have to move immediately and I won't be able to because I'll be on bed rest. Plus his hours are long so I would be by myself 80% of the time. If I move home I will have all of my family and some of his family there to help me while on bed rest and/or after the twins are born, which while that's ideal I don't want him to miss out on any part of our children's lives if he doesn't have to or miss their births. If I move home I'll be there until either my husband is settled wherever we go and I have no idea how long that will take, but if I don't then there's a chance I'll could be doing this all on my own. I know this is a lot to process and you might not understand it all. I just need opinions. please help...
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