laughing at myself for failing miserably this month

so i was cramping abit a few days before my normal ovulation so i took a opk test at 4pm which was negative then again at 9pm and it was positive. next morning i did clearblue ov test and it was positive.so bd that night thinking well we may catch the tail end this month since we were caught off guard. didnt have much ewcm,the tiniest amount so used concieve plus lubricant. last night,husband and i spent hours at the computer doing business work and go to bed like zombies. i go to bathroom and i wipe and i have the biggest amount of ewcm i have had since ttc but we are shattered from working a 16hour day so went straight to sleep. ah well maybe next month!so typical of everything going against us lol