I think my friend is trying to embarrass me

So I live out of state from family and friends backs home so where im at I don’t talk to anyone but my friend that stays in the same city she keeps insisting that she tryna throw me a baby shower and she is gona invite people we got in an arguement because I told her who ever she knows idon’t know that’s wierd and if she do throw a baby shower most likely it’s gona he just us 2 that’s not fun she wants to do a gender reveal so she got mad cause I said no how does this sound to you guys cause it sounds wierd to me