I. NEED. ADVICE.

Ok so me and my boyfriend broke up two weeks ago and he broke up with me because he said he wasn’t ready for a relationship (we were together for a month and two weeks) and so I told myself that I was still going to be there for him until he was ready for a relationship and now two weeks later he has a new girlfriend and so I’m just confused because when I asked him why he had broken up with me he said that it was because he was going through something and that he felt he wasn’t playing the part of a boyfriend and so I’m confused because if you were going through things and you broke up with me because of that instead of letting me be there for you through that hard time then how do you have a new girlfriend already and I feel like he lied to me because he always used to tell me how he would never do anything to upset me because he didn’t want to lose me and then you just break up with me so if you broke up with me because you weren’t ready for a relationship or because you were going through something then how come two weeks later if your already feeling better you get a new girlfriend instead of getting back together with me if he really had loved me as much as he always said then instead of getting a new girlfriend he would of gotten back together with me and also on Valentine’s Day he posted something where it said (finally got paid , my everything’s Valentine’s Day finna end well) and we had broken up on February 7 so that means that one week later he got a new girlfriend or maybe not even a week later because he was already calling her his everything and so I don’t know how to feel because I was feeling better about the break up and I already had my suspicions since Valentine’s Day about his new girlfriend but my friend said that he was just talking about money so I let it go and now I know for sure that he has a girlfriend and so u feel so betrayed and lied to because what if he didn’t love me no more and that’s why he broke up with me but he just didn’t want to tell me. I feel like if he got a new girlfriend two weeks later after our break up then that means he didn’t really love me because if you truly love someone and you break up because your not ready for a relationship your going to stay single until your ready for a relationship because you want to be with them and he didn’t do that so I feel like I was lied to I feel betrayed because I thought we were going to get back together when he was ready and that’s why I was planning to be by his side I thought we were just taking like a break 😭😭💔

I need help because before I started dating him I promised myself that if me and him didn’t work out I wasn’t going to spend more time chasing after him or anybody else that didn’t value me and so I’m torn between wether I should talk to him about how I feel and what I think or wether I should just move on

I’ve been through hard times like this once before and it took me five years to truly get better and be able to open up to love again and so I don’t want that to happen again I want to be able to give myself respect and worth and to be strong and independent but each time I remember all the memories we had it hurts me because now I really wonder wether he ever really loved and cared about me

Give me your opinion ladies 😭💔