Hi ladies, i have a quick question

Olga

My boyfriend before has slapped me lightly when drunk to make me stop because i was talking shit i guess and wouldnt stop and more recently he also lightly pushed me away because i took something he asked me not to. We all do stupid things like i did but the question is, is this the start of abusive boyfriend or its normal to just push? Now instead of being angry around me he leaves until hes calm.