help!!!!!

hey ladies , So due to my past when i was about 15 i got put into foster care because i was around drugs, alcohol and violence!! Well I've got social services coming round just to make sure that im not round it now and that everything is okay and that im stable enough to bring my baby into this world!!!

i know i shouldn't stress because i have an amazing boyfriend and we have our own place and im not round that anymore but im so nervous that they might not think im stable enough or good enough, My brain is just going on overload because i wouldn't wanna lose my baby!!!

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Li

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I was in social care age 13-15 and when they found out I was pregnant they got in touch and came round to have a chat and see if I wanted any support. They will also come round after baby is here to make sure the baby is getting everything he/she needs, although it might be different where you are. If you are doing fine now then you’ll have nothing to worry about, they was going to close the case after they visited me and just do the 1 visit when I’ve given birth but my partner got into trouble so they are still involved and will be for 6 months after my sons here just to be on the safe side which I find stupid as it wasn’t a big deal but I can see where they are coming from. I’m sure you’ll be fine, be honest with them because if you lie and they find out they could take it as though you’re hiding things and be concerned. Good luck!

Li

Lily • Mar 2, 2018
I’m 19 in may and due in a week!! Honestly if you’re doing fine now you’ll have nothing to worry about, they just have a duty of care and because you’re on the system will just want to check up! You’ll be fine xx

Ab

Abbii • Mar 2, 2018
thankyou so much babe, Im just so nervous im only 19 but im coping well enough now, everything is going perfect baby is healthy, buying everything i need slowly!! i really appreciate what youve said!!! xx