Weak orgasms? Do I have an orgasm disorder?

I can’t orgasm with other people and can only do it myself with help *STRONG* vibes on my clit - otherwise I don’t really feel too much with anything else.

When I orgasm, my vagina contracts and releases, but the contractions are kind of slow and doesn’t last long and the “orgasmic” feeling everyone describes isn’t as intense as I’ve read.

I’ve tried edging and it’s the same results as well, and it’s not a psychological thing as I’ve grew up in a sex positive household with no shaming and if I had any sex related questions my mom would answer honestly and accurately.

I’ve read that most women do have an orgasm disorder, but it’s hard to diagnose.