Orgasm Question

So , I am unable to cum with my husband. When we are intimate.

However when I master-bate and stimulate my clit I can.

There was once a time when I had climaxed 3-4 times one night with him however that was about the last time.

I never had the experience of a wet orgasm either just get very wet in the process together.

Any tips or recommendations for a fellow sista?