Just let it happen

So I'll be 32 next month. My husband and I have been " trying"off and on for the last 2 years. Dr says everything is fine but We work opposite schedules and rarely see each other espically In the summer months and after an early miscarriage last year I was a bit of an emotional reck an our timing just didn't seem to be right..Anyway ..back to why I'm writing. Now that we are seriously trying and tracking and following all the steps it Seems like everyone I know is pregnant and people insist on asking me when I am having one and well what am I waiting for? ( never realized how rude it is to ask until now) anyone have tips on "just letting it happen" I have an issue with shutting off the want for a baby and just letting it happen! I know the stress of this will make me crazy and feel a little bit like it's starting to already but anyone that could give me any tips would be very helpful! Thanks ❤️