If I should date this guy or not?

Sorry this is my first post so don’t judge me! Lol 😩

So I’m a type of person that like to be by myself a lot of the time. And I tend to do that a lot with people around me because also I suffer from anxiety so when I get stressed I just tell everyone to fuck off basically.

So I was at work and this guy came in and asked me for my number and I gave it to him because I haven’t been in a relationship or had sex in 5 years. YES 5 YEARS! (Sorry I’m just not the hook up type of girl 😂) So T (the guy) started texting me and calling me everyday and night and we used to stay up talking for hours from like 1 am to 5pm because he works the grave yard shift at the post office. So finally after talking for a week on the phone we set up a a date which he basically flacked on. (Maybe he didn’t see it as a date idk, but I did 😂) So T hardly texted me the day of because he was hanging with his nephew so I understand and waited. Finally he texted me at 10pm saying that he’s back from hanging with his nephew and that he’s going to take an hr nap and that he’s going to come over and get me after. But where the hell are we going at 12am. Anyway he came over and we didn’t go anywhere he chilled for a second then he just went straight to start touching me etc. then I caved and had sex fuck it lol and he spent the night and everything. Btw I don’t know if this is the issue but the sex wasn’t that great. After that he hardly texted me or called me so I was like okay fuck it I wasn’t expecting much and I didn’t have my hopes up anyway. But then finally he texted me and I never replied so he called me and all he wanted was pictures of me because he misses me. Well if you miss me then make time to see me and take me out on an actual date. Wtf! She I hanged up the phone on him and I never texted him back and he kept blowing up my phone. So I basically told him to fuck off and now he’s texting me a month later asking me what happened.

Maybe I should of told him my issues and concerns so now I feel bad and I need help lol

************** Thank you guys for the advice and I finally told him that I’ll give him a shit! 😂 jk no I didn’t. I tried texting him for 2 days and tell him what’s on my mind and to make it clear that if he wants a relationship this is what has to be done. And he just went back to asking to come over before he had to go to work etc. and I told him he’ll no. You will not be seeing my apartment until I go on an actual date and he dodged that topic so I got annoyed. When he realized that I was annoyed he start saying that if I don’t talk to him or let him come over he’s going to put his toe in my mouth. I didn’t know I was dealing with a child. So bye boy!! ✌🏽