Is anybody else struggling with everyone around them focusing on stuff like professional maternity photos, newborn photography, the big fancy baby shower? I'm just grateful to be able to carry this happy healthy child and I'm slightly overwhelmed with everything else going on and my in-laws keep going on and on about me having to make time and plans for all of these things that I just don't find necessary. I want to have a cute little baby shower for the families to help celebrate the coming of the baby, but why the fancy cakes and decorations. And of they want all that to happen, why can't they do it themselves? sorry for the rant guys, it's just a struggle this week