Insensitive ass

Okay so today is my little cousins 17th birthday, but in 2012 she passed away from Luekimia. My insensitive ass bf said "I don't know why you care so much today, knowing you have a car and can go to her gravesite at anytime"... Like excuse me for not wanting to sit and cry at her grave everyday. I miss her so much, she was like my little sister, part of me getting sober was for her! She meant so much to me in life, she was the strongest young lady I ever knew. It just hurts that he always has to be so insensitive about how I feel all the time.