what's it mean when your 35 weeks and you go use the bathroom and you feel pressure and you can and it hurts and you go to the doctor and I was 34 weeks then and he measured my belly and he said I was measuring 37 weeks and he said this baby may be coming soon or he's going to induce me soon because my baby is already in position so how do I know if I'm dilated or not on my own some doctors tell you could check to see if your dilated but I don't know how to check if your dilated