Partner not being helpful

Shannon

Since becoming 34 weeks pregnant (Tuesday) I’ve had really bad back pain I’ve asked my partner if he could massage my back or at least stroke it to ease the pain and he says he will but never does or he makes excuses saying I’m tired I’ve got work in the morning so I’m sat there in agony with my back. Also since my second trimester onwards he will keep asking me to do stuff for example pass him the remote or his drink or he will wait till I sit down and then he will ask me to go to him because he wants to show me something. (Why wait till I walk out room and sit down im heavily pregnant and uncomfortable) do you think I should talk to my midwife see if she can give him abit of a talk (he coming to my next midwife appointment)