8dpo, early I know...I tweaked and think nothing?

I got my solid smiley last Saturday and BD that day, 2 days before that and two days after. I'm pretty sure I'm out and wanted to not have any more HPTs around, did it for the heck of it. This is month 10 and I think I'm about to throw in the towel. It's causing too much stress between DH and I. So out with the HPTs, OPKs, and any other TTC aids(softcups, royal jelly, vitex, etc). I know it's super early to even test, but I wanted to get my monthly disappointment out early. Is my BFN confirmed? Good luck to all of you! I don't think I'm cut out for TTC. 😞