(Also posted in the BFN group)

I should start by saying that I'm not a FTM, and I read obsessively about all the things with my first pregnancy, so I'm not coming to y'all completely blind 😜 Got my BFP at 3w2d with first pregnancy.

I'm not even going to bother posting a picture of my BFN, but I'm sure there's nothing there.

BUT I'm super confused.

My normal pms symptom (my poop always changes a few days before my period) disappeared the day after AF was due, and still no period. AF was due Wednesday (3/7), and here we are on Sunday (3/11)....

I've been this late once before a few months ago, but my pms stuff never went away during that time.

I've been having dull one-sided cramps, which is different from my regular hellish, first-day period cramps.

Took a cheapie test today and it was negative. Obviously I plan on waiting a couple of days before I test again, presuming AF hasn't shown up by then...but should I call my doctor tomorrow to see if I should be tested anyway? I've got myself freaking out about the possibility of an ectopic or something and don't want to go too long without getting checked.

I had really low progesterone levels with my daughter and needed to take progesterone starting at 5 weeks to lower the risk of miscarrying....I also don't want to wait too long and not get help if it's needed now.

Anyway, just was curious if anyone knows the feeling or has any insight 😜😜