Did he play me?

So basically I went on a date with a guy in March we hit it off and the next day he didn't text me. A month later he texted me about how he had a dream about me and asked me to help him to get laid then said jk..whatever I told him I wasn't that kind of girl even if he was kidding. Two weeks later he asked me that he wanted to be with me and fully trust again because he got out of a 6 year relationship. Since I don't date too often because I don't really trust, I gave it a shot, innocently. We talked got a month he opened up to me about a lot of things. His mom is going through a lot mentally and so is his dad. He lost his job. We had sex at this point, but we still hung out after that and he would call me randomly throughout the day to tell me he missed me and everything. But now it's been a month and we haven't spoken. Was I used the entire time? Some people are saying he did and some people are saying that he's going through a lot but still is messed up that he hasn't contacted me. What do you think?